What Belly Dance Has Given Me

Dance has opened doors to me that I never knew existed.  Being asked to instruct others was such an honor.  Habeeba thought I was capable of teaching others.  I've always kept in mind with my students that they probably have the same fears and concerns I did.  Maybe they think they can't perform, or even do a basic step.  Maybe they've been through difficulties that have them feeling low about themselves.  There's something special about the feminine energy in the studio.  Regardless of age, background, race, profession or body type, we're all there for the same reason, and we all bring different gifts. 

I've learned that each student has a unique talent for specific movements.  Some dancers prefer hip movements, some prefer slow, sensuous swaying movements, and others prefer dramatic turns and stops, posing for effect while making eye contact with the audience and drawing them in.  The key is continuing to encourage students who haven't found the movements their body prefers.  If they study long enough and take time to listen to the music, they will find their own style, regardless of who has taught them the fundamental movements.   It's so gratifying to watch the first performances of my students.  Knowing that many of them came to class feeling anxious and lacking self confidence, and then seeing them perform with a smile- it's a beautiful thing and I feel honored to have been a part of their learning. 

Not giving up and sticking with this hobby has given me is an opportunity to pursue a dream.  My enthusiasm for and interest in costuming led me to a retail sales business.  I met Joharah Cauger in 1997 at a dance event.  She had tables of costumes for sale, and one in particular caught my eye.  It was the most beautiful lavender color and was encrusted with beads and giant crystals.  At the time, it was very difficult to find costumes in larger sizes, and this one looked like it was made for me.  In 1997, $350 was a lot to pay for a costume, but I tried it on and was lost.  

  

I still love the costume as much today as the day I bought it.  Joharah told me that she'd designed it for herself but it didn't fit and she was heartbroken to have to sell it.  She was happy that it was a perfect fit for me though.  We stayed in touch and a few months later, she asked if I'd like to be her Midwest sales rep.  I've been selling for Joharah since then and she has become good friends.   Being a sales rep for Joharah was something that motivated me to enroll in classes at Franklin University.  I'd worked in the medical field for 25 years with no college degree.  Enrolling at Franklin has enabled me to pursue my dream of having a costume business.  I hope to eventually establish a belly dance costume e-commerce site in addition to traveling to vend at regional events.